Dear Edna Jean,
My boyfriend is asking for anal sex. He wants ME to wear a strap on and mount HIM. Does this make him gay?
-Back Door Action
Dear Back Door Action,
No, this does not make him gay. He is clearly expressing his desires to you which may include a need to be submissive to you. Anal play can be very pleasurable and is not only associated with homosexual behavior. A great sex life begins with communication. Celebrate that your man is telling where the target is; strap it on and aim for the bullseye!